SEDUCTION.
INTIMACY.
PLEASURE.

 

LEARN THE ART OF THE TEASE,

CREATE SOUL-DEEP BONDS &

CULTIVATE ENERGY ORGASMS THAT LAST FOR HOURS

SEDUCTION.
INTIMACY.
PLEASURE.

LEARN THE ART OF THE TEASE, ORGASMS THAT LAST FOR HOURS & SOUL-DEEP RELATING

SEDUCTION.
INTIMACY.
PLEASURE.

LEARN THE ART OF THE TEASE, ORGASMS THAT LAST FOR HOURS & SOUL-DEEP RELATING

EVOKE ERECTIONS

Do you want him standing in tension for that special something you emanate?
To be intrigued by your charms?

 

Learn to cultivate your personal enchantress.
Bring playfulness and sensuality into your interactions.
Tease his cock and enchant his soul until he has no choice but to do something about it.

 

Men, just like women, enjoy seeing depth in character, uniqueness and a special flavour. Every woman possesses these sides to her. Together we find, reclaim and refine these parts in you that allow you to be playful yet elegant, seductive yet sophisticated, honest yet intriguing,  nurturing yet devastating.

So much so that you become his obsession. An irrational desire on two legs who offers him a world he hasn’t seen or felt. The adventure he craves in his life. Of course, he doesn’t know it.
Yet.

EVOKE ERECTIONS

Do you want him standing in tension for that special something you emanate?
To be intrigued by your charms?

 

Learn to cultivate your personal enchantress.
Bring playfulness and sensuality into your interactions.
Tease his cock and enchant his soul until he has no choice but to do something about it.

 

Men, just like women, enjoy seeing depth in character, uniqueness and a special flavour. Every woman possesses these sides to her. Together we find, reclaim and refine these parts in you that allow you to be playful yet elegant, seductive yet sophisticated, honest yet intriguing,  nurturing yet devastating.

So much so that you become his obsession. An irrational desire on two legs who offers him a world he hasn’t seen or felt. The adventure he craves in his life.

Be aware that these results require your discipline and a will to make it through to the other end. No advice, no exercises will help you if you avoid going through the work I will give you. But if you’re putting your all into the artform of seduction you will see men respond to you. More interested. Maybe uncontrollably hard for you. It’s in your hands.

Advanced Intimacy & Love Bonds 

Courage To Surrender

When Women Don’t Receive Men And Keep Their Emotions And Desires Locked Away

 

Us women are afraid of a load of things. But most of all we’re terrified to be raped. Even by the men we enjoy devouring. We carry so many blocks and shields around that men have a hard time to reach into us, to feel us completely. And we can’t feel our own selves.

Here I’ll go back in time when I was  that woman. When it was pure horror to me to have a man have me, however he will. To put away the need for his tender touch and let him in, however he comes. Into my heart, my soul, my body.


The Fear To Be Taken In Body and Heart

I saw you from afar, saw the danger in your eyes and was afraid you might tear me to shreds. The Tango music played and it was wonderful. So I let you inch in. A conversation here. Feeling your energy there. A look. A dance. More dances. More energy. More wanting to fuck.

Oh, the tango is my go-to place when I want to practice adultery on foot. With rules of engagement. With movement. By giving you my crazy desire to feel and you get to respond by leading me, taking me into impossible figurines and pivots, wrapping my legs around you.

I’m a whore. I love the exchange of intimacy when our eyes meet, when our heated bodies merge into the embrace, when I run my fingers across your neck and shoulder line, immerse into your gaze. When I move my hips and pivot at your very desire. Yes, I’m your puppet. But make no mistake, I’ll have what I came here for.

On the dance floor I can let go. Because ….it’s just a dance. It’s public and safe. I can always escape back to my table and dance the next round with someone else if I want to. But I feel something else in you, a drive to be brutal, to tear out something out of my body. I can see it in your eyes, read it in your energy, smell it in your words.

But I’m scared to death that I will be broken. More broken than I already am. Will you take my fear to lose my heart and emotional independence? Because I know me. I jump in, front and center, and don’t give myself an escape route. All in. Or nothing. But not this time. Past pain still lingers in my body. The memory might have faded but I still feel it. So I taste you. Not fully, because I can’t let myself go just yet. What will happen to me if I give in to your claim to be yours? Who will I become? I might disappear in this thing with you until nothing is left, until you have consumed me. What will happen then? Will I be so deeply hooked that I’ll go into cold turkey once this is over? That I will be ruined for years to come, possibly forever? What will happen to me holding space for my clients when I need to be held? How will my kids see it when I fall apart? What will they learn? About love and sex and surrender?

So, I can’t let you take me the way you want to. Not yet, anyway.

 

I Want Your Healing Touch

Your rape is barbaric and all encompassing. It devours my soul, my body, my all. I don’t believe that your way can heal me. So I want your gentleness instead. So I can feel nourished and cherished, not taken violently. But then I don’t feel all of you. Something is missing.

I’m afraid that I might feel the old wounds of the past opening up. That I can’t stop crying in your arms. My experience says ‘Never cry in a man’s arms, never show him the abyss of my soul. He can’t handle my overflowing emotions, nor my darkness.’

 

 My Pain, My Torture

In fact I can’t handle it. I can’t handle breaking and breaking you with me. And then you’ll leave me for it. I don’t want to feel this helpless and severed, reminded that I have nothing to offer but my body because my heart, well, yes, my heart answers. But fuck my heart. I can’t, I don’t, I won’t give in to this love because I feel myself breaking. I feel it deep down. And I’m terrified.

Opening up to you means to burn down my fortress. To unarm my towers and to hand it over to you. What will you do with it? Experience says you can’t handle me on my knees, that you can’t hold the space for me if everything breaks down through your penetration and I depend on you to catch me in my nakedness, my woundedness to reach catharsis.

My body responds to you. My heart responds to you. But my mind shuts it out. It’s for the better to stay in control of my emotions and my demons. I never want anyone to see what I’ve tucked away safely in the dungeons of my soul. The shadows that are lurking there. The ones I’m afraid to let out. They will lash out. And you will run for the hills. But I want to enjoy you some more. More sex. More of your time and devotion. Maybe then I can feel safe enough to open up. Maybe I can allow myself to let you open my dungeons and to release all that I’m afraid of in myself.

But first, can you hold yourself when you are triggered by my feminine insanity? Can you hold this space for yourself and me when my shadows emerge and you’ll see all of the ugliness and pain I never wanted to show you in the first place?

 

I want all of you

So I ask you to rape me. I will be fine, no matter what happens to me. I decide on that because I believe that I can do it. And because I want more of you than what I allow in right now. More of what you offer. Am I afraid? Yes. But I know I can’t have your heart if I don’t surrender to whom you are. Whom you are in all of your might and darkness and love and quirks. I know that I’ll hate you. But the love for you will be that much stronger. The lust will be overwhelming. And you flooding me with your penetrative masculine energy will render me vulnerable down to the last bit of me. I will fall. And I will get up. And stumble. And rise. For however many times I need and desire. For however many times you open me up.

I’ve lived it many times in Tango and during sex. When I surrender to you, you become bolder, stronger. You let out your crazy when I let out mine. And I love you for it. You penetrate my being on all levels. The way I want it. To be overwhelmed by love and sexual energy and taken to heights I couldn’t reach if I wouldn’t let you in. All of you.

I know you’ll make dumb mistakes that will hurt me. So will I. But do you want to walk this path with me? To make mistakes, have our hearts broken by each other and still have insane love & lust infuse it all? To find the solutions that fill us up?

It is this decision that I want this, that makes it work. Am I ready? Never. But I jump into the deep end, head first into whatever tickles me. Is it stupid? Oh yes, insanely stupid. I will hurt abysmally. I will drown in a sea of love, go beyond what I believe is possible. And then some.

It will all be worth it.
To lose myself.
To find myself.

I worship your cock along the way.
Feed your soul.
Free your spirit.

I will try stupid things and come out on the other end more alive than ever. Will you fuck me and spoon me through it all? Then this is worth being split open and shattered into a million pieces.
I’m waiting for it.

 

 

 

Create soul bonds through Intimacy

 

Ladies

We ignore the screaming inside, when our shadows want to break free. You can feel it moving in your head, your body, your mind. Shadow work, the work with the unconscious, is an essential part of the healing process. Not many men can hold the space for a woman who needs to drop into her pain to unarm it. But the few who can, heal our wounds. If they can also fuck…. Otherwise this is a woman’s deep inner work among and with other women.


Gents 

The same goes for men. There are some things a woman can do to help a man find his sweet spot. She can inspire him to find his men tribe and to do the archetypal emotional men’s work among men, with men. To learn to hold himself and his decisions. Or to correct the course when he finds another way to move forward. This will prove the most important step when he returns for the final work with women. To experience all of the ways women can be, all of the love and cock tickling and guidance they can give men. And the treacherous waters we lure you into. You will be challenged in many ways, your own shadows will come up. The question is – how will you hold yourself?

You’ll learn to find your centre in a woman’s storms and craziness. Or to expand into her lust. Her desire. Her fury. And her devotion to you and your forthcoming. I will be the siren, the gorgon, the queen and the mother, the guide, oracle and sphinx. I will be Persephone and Diana, Venus and Khali, Hathor and Morgaine. And many more. I will show you what women desire in men and why it’s crucial for you to come prepared. You will learn to find the balance between staying true to yourself and to hold the space for a woman’s desires. You’ll learn to create the stage on which she can dance and be herself. A space in which surrender becomes a delight and fears are shed. And you are the one who gets to enjoy her true essence and wetness.

 

Ladies

Sexual shadows are formed when we experience situations of shaming, being made into a woman who is shackled into believes of impurity, defiled by ‘dirty thoughts and evil yearnings’. Shadows form when sexuality is demonised and exiled from our lives. Most shadows are willing to come forward and are great allies in regaining possession of yourself, a better understanding of who you are and what makes you tick. They also help make a relationship far more interesting because now you have many more resources and ideas that can help you in creating a soul bond. And other shadows will take time to see if you are ready for them. If you can work yourself through the pain and integrate, accept and love these parts of you. If you can even stand them inside of you. Inviting them is key.

I’ve learned that the pain loses its poison when we drop into it, when we relive the tormenting situation, or the fear of it, when we allow this other part in us to voice itself and then to be corrected and educated. All in acceptance and giving yourself the time to transform yourself. Your shadows want to be seen and heard and loved, no matter how devastating they may appear. These aspects we skillfully hide even from ourselves, often hold treasures we buried along with them – the ability to be vulnerable, fuckable, lovable, feminine, playful, enchanting, wet.

There’s also your animus, the masculine part in you, who’s often limping around in your subconscious without a clear objective of how to be who he is. This is true for men and their anima, too. Finding your animus, and working with this aspect of yours, is important for your very own balance and a deep empathy and understanding of men in general. Having an underdeveloped man roaming in your psyche is a hindrance to connect with men emotionally and sexually, even spiritually.

Your sexuality cripples when these sides in you are suppressed and ignored. Self hatred, an inability to surrender to your own self, being your own self is the result. At the same time the dependance on him to rescue you takes over. You become needy and clingy, hoping that he can save you from yourself. It leads to an inability to surrender to a man. If you can’t trust yourself to be free, who else could you possibly trust yourself with?

Who else is crazy enough to get you? What you’ve been through, the monsters that now reside in you? The desires you shun because they might not be approved? The desires you want to live in spite of everything. To finally leave the cocoon and to fly.

I will hold that safe space for you to explore and rediscover what drives you, what drives you wild. Whichever way. Bring all of your critters, sirens, killers, warriors, phantoms, voices, your dragons and daggers, your crossbows and traps. Bring your cravings and your deepest darkest desires. They’re all welcome. Everything is welcome.

And when you’re ready we’ll talk.

Experience energy orgasms with the power of your mind and unlock the potential to transform sexual energy for soul deep healing, rejuvenation, youth and even beauty.

To create a relationship filled with excitement and polarity a few things have to be done differently. It requires to do things differently and to be open to the possibility that this part of your life, that you desire, is is right around the bend when you can see yourself there.

If you’re ready to play full out, here are some ways in which I can support you:

Ever wanted to have a man to pursue you? To get hard for that special something you emanate? Learn to cultivate your personal enchantress. To bring playfulness into your interactions. To tease his cock until he has no choice but to do something about it. And then have him see your other sides. Men, just like women, enjoy seeing depth in character, uniqueness and a special flavour. Every woman possesses these sides to her. Together we can find and reclaim these parts in you that allow you to be playful yet elegant, seductive yet sophisticated, honest yet intriguing.

What are your deepest fears and utmost desires? Your dreams and visions? The dark places inside? The good pain and the bad pain?

Remove barriers that hinder you from feeling yourself and your partners deeply. To love deeper than ever before and to create strong relationship bonds while at the same time strengthening the ability to let go. To be emotionally self-caring.

I help you to unite with all the shades of your soul. Even if they are dark. Especially when they are dark. And to heal.

 

 

 

 

Do You Desire the Deep Soul – Connection to Him?

 

You want bonds, devotion and his quality time? To feel his soul reaching into yours and a part of him to take residence in your heart, mind and flesh and you in his?

Coaching For Intimate Depth & Earth Shattering, Soul Deep Sex

What are your deepest fears and utmost desires? Your dreams and visions? The dark places inside? The good pain and the bad pain?

Remove barriers that hinder you from feeling yourself and your partners deeply. To love deeper than ever before and to create strong relationship bonds while at the same time strengthening the ability to let go. To be emotionally self-caring.

I help you to unite with all the shades of your soul. Even if they are dark. Especially when they are dark. And to heal.

Learn the ways of sacred sexuality to unlock the potential to transform sexual energy for soul deep healing, rejuvenation, youth and even beauty.

To create a relationship filled with excitement and polarity a few things have to be done differently. It requires to do things differently and to be open to the possibility that this part of your life, that you desire, is is right around the bend when you can see yourself there.

If you’re ready to play full out, here are some ways in which I can support you:

Coaching For Intimate Depth & Earth Shattering, Soul Deep Sex

What are your deepest fears and utmost desires? Your dreams and visions? The dark places inside? The good pain and the bad pain?

Remove barriers that hinder you from feeling yourself and your partners deeply. To love deeper than ever before and to create strong relationship bonds while at the same time strengthening the ability to let go. To be emotionally self-caring.

I help you to unite with all the shades of your soul. Even if they are dark. Especially when they are dark. And to heal.

Learn the ways of sacred sexuality to unlock the potential to transform sexual energy for soul deep healing, rejuvenation, youth and even beauty.

To create a relationship filled with excitement and polarity a few things have to be done differently. It requires to do things differently and to be open to the possibility that this part of your life, that you desire, is is right around the bend when you can see yourself there.

If you’re ready to play full out, here are some ways in which I can support you:

One-On-One Deep Immersion

Are you ready to profoundly transform your relationships? Our work together will be intense & intimate – deep, one-on-one coaching that uncovers your hidden barriers and gives you the tools you need to relate, to penetrate / surrender and to create bonds of deep reaching love.

One-On-One Deep Immersion

Are you ready to profoundly transform your relationships? Our work together will be intense & intimate – deep, one-on-one coaching that uncovers your hidden barriers and gives you the tools you need to relate, to penetrate / surrender and to create bonds of deep reaching love.

One-On-One Deep Immersion

Are you ready to profoundly transform your relationships? Our work together will be intense & intimate – deep, one-on-one coaching that uncovers your hidden barriers and gives you the tools you need to relate, to penetrate / surrender and to create bonds of deep reaching love.

1 Day Intensive

Lower the barriers that separate you from deeply feeling yourself and the other. Discover what it means to surrender, how sharpness touches your partner and how to flip the switch from the high performer to the woman who can let a man lead and allows herself to be honoured, respected and worshipped by a partner so you can experience deeper pleasure, catharsis and spiritual growth. To be the man who is capable to welcome a woman opening up and to help her to pace her blossoming. To become ready for your penetration of her mind, her soul, her flesh.

1 Day Intensive

Lower the barriers that separate you from deeply feeling yourself and the other. Discover what it means to surrender, how sharpness touches your partner and how to flip the switch from the high performer to the woman who can let a man lead and allows herself to be honoured, respected and worshipped by a partner so you can experience deeper pleasure, catharsis and spiritual growth. To be the man who is capable to welcome a woman opening up and to help her to pace her blossoming. To become ready for your penetration of her mind, her soul, her flesh.

1 Day Intensive

Lower the barriers that separate you from deeply feeling yourself and the other. Discover what it means to surrender, how sharpness touches your partner and how to flip the switch from the high performer to the woman who can let a man lead and allows herself to be honoured, respected and worshipped by a partner so you can experience deeper pleasure, catharsis and spiritual growth. To be the man who is capable to welcome a woman opening up and to help her to pace her blossoming. To become ready for your penetration of her mind, her soul, her flesh.

You’ll be able to hold the space for your strong emotions, to own yourself in a relationship with a woman and to be that man who is present, holds a woman safe and penetrates her mind, her soul and her flesh. You’ll learn the tools to experience a deeper satisfaction in sex.

Small Group Retreats

In Planing.

In these gatherings you’ll learn the sexual triggers in the other sex, tension, teasing and holding the space of anticipation and excitement.
We will dive into the darkness lingering within you, may it be holding you back from deeply relating and feeling yourself and the other. Or may it be a fantasy you always wanted to live.
Energy work and exercises to strengthen your sex drive, stamina and depth of orgasm will help you to experience emotions freely, to direct them and the different energy levels in and throughout your body and the body of your partner. Grounding and owning yourself in the storm of emotions is the foundation to surrender/penetration and to cum deeper and fuel each eruption with catharsis.

Transform Your Relationships

With deepest Intimacy.
Master the art of …. fornication.
And heal while you’re at it.

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Transform Your Relationships

With deepest Intimacy.
Master the art of …. fornication.
And heal while you’re at it.

My Newsletter Now

Transform Your Relationships

With deepest Intimacy.
Master the art of …. fornication.
And heal while you’re at it.

My Newsletter Now